Well, I did make a new Forum Sig (on my profile page) and promptly got banned by AngieDawn. She gave me an infraction, and I PM'ed her that I disputed it and wanted a Mod that wasn't her to mediate since she's got a conflict of interest, but then she banned me.
I've had Daniel Canfield defending her stating that she was right to ban me because "this Wiki" and/or the Admins use cheats to get content.
I debated the point with Shiny and told her that you had changed policy to make us play nice with the forum, and she was excited about it and said that she'd champion it to higher ups.
However, Daniel Canfield is more interested in digging in his heels and defending AngieDawn than trying to help this Wiki. Sad really.
If they're wlling to support us, then great. But if not, I say screw em, and let's do what we want.
I wouldn't call them a rival because a rival implies that there is some equlity to the two Wikis, and there just isn't. Their format is painful to read and their content is non-existant. ; )
I just responded to your request to join it, so you should be able to see the thread. It should be easy to spot, since it thread's off my post about getting banned.
Remember that the point of the wikia is to help people, not to show off who has the better domain. If you can't get the information (more important!) out well enough (and, especially, if the actual forum condemns this databank), its existence is as good as null and void.
Keep trying to compromise, even if PD mods are being hostile. Do not respond with aggression, as it'll only make matters worse. Although you guys put a whole lot of effort into this wiki and turned it into something amazing, it end up being worth a whole lot of nothing if you fail to get it legalized.
I think this Wiki is great, and I hope to see it be officially endorsed. Good luck, guys and gals. :)